Welcome to our first post for Journal Club 2017-18. Quite a few nurses expressed interest in reading about the latest treatments for cancer, specifically immunotherapy. Immunotherapy is truly cutting edge therapy that researchers have been studying for many years. In 1891William B. Coley, MD injected live inactivated Streptococcus Pyrogenes and Serratia Marcescens into the tumors of cancer patients. Many of Coley's patient's tumors were held at bay while other patients went into complete remission. At this time in history there was quite a bit of fear surrounding the idea of infecting cancer patients with pathogenic bacteria. Oncologists at the time chose the standard treatments of surgery and radiotherapy over "Coley's Toxins" (targetedonc.com,2014).
Oncology nurses are at the front line of administering and educating patients about immunotherapy. There is so much information about Immunotherapy available that it was difficult to pare down information for this post. Don't get anxious because there are three links for this month. Each one is brief and to the point. I found the following article just what it promises in it's title -
Fast Facts for the Frontline: Immunotherapy. There is a reference cited in this article, "The Oncology Quiz Game". This reference link shares a ninety minute presentation given in 2015 at ONS Congress and will tell you down to the last detail everything that you ever wanted to read about this subject.
For audio learners, download "Living Drug", be aware that the audio presentation differs from the written article. Lastly, on our website Dr. Gershenhorn gives a fantastic explanation of immunotherapy, the following link from that site is also a great resource. The link also gives a comprehensive list of the specific drugs that are used in immunotherapy, CTCA and Immunotherapy
Questions
- Immunotherapy basic - explain what T cells are and how they are utilized in Immunotherapy.
- Name the three categories of Immunotherapy and how they are used to treat cancer.
Discussion Question
Yes, it's from the Cleveland Clinic, and yes it was posted three years ago - but I love it! Sometimes the soundtrack plays in my head as I walk through the halls of our hospital and I remind myself that everyone has their joys, their fears and their struggles. Grab your tissue box, watch the video, then share your thoughts - no more than two paragraphs please. Don't miss the first 30 seconds of the video, sometimes it skips when opened. Empathy
Please send your answers to melissa.luebbe@ctca-hope.com
Reference
Please send your answers to melissa.luebbe@ctca-hope.com
Reference
A Brief History of Immunotherapy. (n.d.). Retrieved September 20, 2017, from http://www.targetedonc.com/publications/special-reports/2014/immunotherapy-issue3/A-Brief-History-of-Immunotherapy
I have seen this video several times. I always enjoy it just as much as I did the first time. It really is an eye opener. You never know what the people in the halls that you are passing are going through. It is important to put whatever is going on in your work/home life aside and be breath of fresh air when you pass someone. It may make a small difference in that persons day!
ReplyDeleteTina,
DeleteI totally agree. I not only leave my home issues at home but I don't bring my work issues home either.
Patricia A.
Hi Tina,
DeleteI totally agree with you here. I have heard our patients say how refreshing it is to be in a facility where everyone says hi to them or good morning. Such a simple thing to do for others, but it is sometimes just what someone needs!
this is so true. i hear our patients say that our hospital is like their home away from home. And the staff are like their family members that care about them. Also a smile always beget another smile. So keep smiling everyone!!!
DeleteI love this video and other videos that come up when you view this one . Makes you stand back, take a breath and realize that everyone has something no matter how big or how small. Remember to hang up your problems with your time card as I was always taught and be present with the Pt .
ReplyDeleteGood advice, Pat. Put your problems aside for the time here. The distraction of work makes it easier to put aside problems.
DeleteWell said that "everyone has something". At the end of the day, each one of us is unique however we are all human.......
DeleteYes, we must remember that even in the hall when not with a patient or other staff, we are still on the time clock!
DeleteGreat advice Pat. Conversely, remember to leave the day's problems at work as best we can so we can be present with our families. I once read a story about someone who touched the bushes outside her door at home whenever she entered he front door at the end of the workday. On the way to work the next day, she touched the bushes again. She was leaving work issues outside her home and was picking them up again the next day to deal with them at work.
DeleteThis is a sobering video. It makes you realize the grass is not always greener on the other side. Everyone has stresses and their personal crisis. Empathy goes a long way no matter the type of crisis. We must keep the human component alive in our interactions, whether at CTCA, at the grocery store, at church, or on the playground with the kids. Role modeling empathy and patience to the next generation is our responsibility. Also, a smile or friendly nod goes a long way. D. Krickl
ReplyDeleteI agree with trying to keep the human component alive in our interactions - its hard to do sometimes because everything is automated and computerized but just taking a few seconds to make eye contact and smile with someone goes a long way.
DeleteI agree Donna and Barbara. I think this video not only helps you at work but it also helps in your personal life. Try to show empathy and truly listen
DeleteI agree with you Donna. This video is a great reminder for wherever you are and you never know who the next person is that could use a nice smile from a stranger :)
DeleteHave seen this video so many times now. Without the words inserted, it mimics scenes from our busy days, not only at the hospital but at the grocery store, church, the gym etc. The video is a good reminder that as we go through the scenes of our busy days that words could easily be inserted above every person's head. Although as much as we would like to, we cannot take on everyone's stuff and save the entire world, however we can be genuine and present when an opportunity to assist presents itself.
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree too, Julie, to set boundaries, as we can not help everyone, but when the opportunity presents itself, we can assist. So true!
DeleteLove this video as much as the first time I saw it years ago. We live in such an egocentric world full of selfies and facebook self promotion that we oftentimes forget to see what is really in front of us. This video is a gut wrenching reminder to walk through life with empathy and compassion. Not just for our patients, but or co-workers as well. Compassion, empathy, and generosity are all gifts that are so easy to give. Elisa Bryant
ReplyDeleteElissa,
DeleteYou have spoken such truth here. We certainly live in an egocentric world. We need to remind ourselves of care, compassion and empathy.
That is what I liked most about this video. It is always engrained in us to be a support for our patients but sometimes I realize I soend more time with my coworkers than anyone else and need to be a support for them as well.
DeleteI agree with others, as the words over the heads of the patients, brings a perspective of what they are going thru. Empathy, such a critical skill to have, especially in nursing and caring for others. Although we can not take on the burden of what another person is going through, we do have the ability to listen and be present. This is truly the art of nursing.
ReplyDeleteLove the saying the art of nursing. It really is the difference between a helper and healer. Great insight Sarah.
DeleteWhat a compelling, heart wrenching video! It certainly puts things into perspective. All of us as professionals need to be reminded of these truths. You never know what another person feels until you place yourself in their shoes. Empathy, a critical nursing skill, when channeled appropriately will help build the connection between the mind, body and soul.
ReplyDeleteWell said Shelia. Robin Roberts on TV who has gone through breast cancer and then a transplant says it perfectly in her book "Everybody's Got something". Be kind, take a step back and breathe before you open your mouth.
Delete"and breathe before you open your mouth", what a perfect idea Pat! Robin Roberts is right..we all "Got something".
DeleteWow, really shouldn’t have watched that video at the nurses’ station. Real; tears streaming down my face. The ability to show empathy is an amazing trait and not one that all have. Some people appear so cold, even when you tell them you need help; they are unwilling to lend an ear or a hand. That small silence, that sometimes is the only true way to show that you empathize with a patient, loved one or some strangers pile of problems that are currently overflowing their capacity to deal with their situation. As a hospice nurse I learned much about empathy, because each situation was so different. Children who for all purposes hated their parents, trying to decide what is in their parent’s best wishes and lovers who have been alienated by the entire family sitting side by side with the ex spouse and the children as she is given no control to the situation were enough to break my heart at times. I had to learn to empathize without pity. That was a tough lesson to learn.
ReplyDeleteThis was a great video. I love how they looked at the professionals as well as the patients and their loved ones. The message about being kind is powerful. You never really know what a person is going through unless you ask. Being in the moment with someone is at times the kindest thing you can do. Thank you. This was a great video.
Katie, you're right not everyone has this trait. As a new parent (both you and I) I thought of my daughter and how I want to teach her about being kind to others, to help other, to sit with the lonely kid sitting at the lunch table, etc. Our kids will learn from us and its our responsibility that they see us do good.
DeleteFirst time to see the video and I really enjoyed it. If only everyone we encountered could have those captions above their heads so that others would know their pain, suffering and fears. Excellent video to remind us the importance of empathy in our work setting and everyday lives. Thanks so much for sharing this video!
ReplyDeleteGreat video! It makes you stop and realize that we all have our struggles; everyone has a battle they're fighting. If every single person could stop and realize this, would we live in a better and more peaceful world? We should all live our lives to better ourselves, help others and be kind to others. Working here has made me realize that my problems are small compare to what our patients go through and I try to treat every single patient with compassion. I've learned to leave everything at the door and be bright when I'm here. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteWell said Rox. Understanding that my problems may be much smaller than the next person's struggles can really put things in perspective. Being kind to one another is a great way to show support.
DeleteRoxana,
ReplyDeleteI agree with your thoughts about counting our blessings and putting our own personal problems in perspective. Whenever I have a bad day or get worried or upset about trivial things, I think about how small my problems are in comparison to the burderns that our patients must carry. I heard a saying once that I like to refer to when things get difficult. "Get rich quick, count your blessings."
Great choice in videos! As I watched it I thought that we are always in a moment; joy, sorrow, peace, anger, etc. We never fully know what anyone is feeling or dealing with unless they tell you. Even then it is not always possible to fully express what you are feeling. Not every level of emotion has the words to be fully expressed. I have been told more than once, "every time I see you walking down the hall, I always see a smile on your face." For me this comes so naturally. I enjoy life, I love people, and want to enjoy whatever time I have on earth and I don't want to ruin anyone's time on earth by bringing them down with my bad attitude.
ReplyDeleteWell said Trish. Having a positive attitude is essential. Feelings/emotions and energy levels are infectious. Everyone has positive and negative energy at different times and we feed off of one another's energy. I'm sure we have all been in situations when you feel like you can touch the energy in the air or "cut the tension..." It's important to take a few moments before entering a room or any situation and gather your thoughts/ emotions because others can sense it. It's wonderful that you can give off that positive energy and that others can feel/notice it just by walking down the hall.
DeleteAgreed, Trish, and I love how you said "not every emotion has words to be fully expressed". How true. Sometimes we can only sigh, or cry, or hold a hand, or pray.
DeleteI absilutely agree with you Patricia, life is too short to waste it to negativity. When you are always positive, it really shows no matter what you do. People will notice that because positivity is contagious and that is what we need in this world.
DeleteEVERYONE is fighting some kind of battle...be kind. That sums it up. Especially toour patients who's best days can parallel our worst. Patricia is right, try to put your best foot forward and make a difference.
ReplyDeleteWell said, everyone you come in contact with is facing some type of life change, positive or negative. We must always be empathetic to every situation <3
DeleteGreat choice of words. Our hardest day may be a great day for someone fighting cancer and that is a tough thought for me.
DeleteAlthough I have seen this video before, it is still effective and timeless. It is powerful enough to send an important "reality check" without using any dialogue or narration. It has been very well produced. When illness or tragedy occurs, it changes a person's life instantly. This video covers so many aspects of a persons life that will never be the same. Terminal illness, chronic pain, shock, financial ramifications, emotional responses, both good and bad are life-altering. Keeping in mind that I work in surgery at a hospital that treats advanced-stage cancer patients, I can relate to how important it is to detect cancer in the early stages and how that changes prognosis and treatment options. The scene of the man sitting nervously who has been waiting for hours reminds me how appreciative our patient's family members are when we give them a call at the beginning of the surgical procedure and update them every two hours. It may sometimes feel like just a policy at times, but it is rewarding to hear how thankful they are to be getting updates on their loved ones.
ReplyDeleteThis video was put together very well! I feel as though empathy cannot be taught in textbooks but learned with each and every patient that we encounter. I know every stakeholder is entitled to have their bad days. However, once you come into work, you realize that your day is not as bad as the patients that come in here to seek answers, treatments, and miracles. Empathy should be a centralized concept in our everyday life because once you walk in a person’s shoes then one will be encouraged to be more caring towards one another.
ReplyDeleteCamille - I agree empathy cannot be taught in textbooks but if you go to the bookstore there are many books on empathy. "According to Edith Stein, a German phenomenologist, empathy can be facilitated. It also can be interrupted and blocked, but it cannot be forced to occur". We all can help facilitate one another.
DeleteHi Camille,
DeleteWell said. I feel like being conscious of this in our everyday life is so important. Sometimes we wear our emotions on our sleeves and don't realize it. Empathy outside of our jobs is important too. In grocery store lines, at gas stations, etc. Everyone has a journey and we all have the ability to facilitate empathy, just like Pat referenced. Thank you, ladies!
Totally agree with you Camille. We as a stakeholder here at CTCA who promise to uphold the mother standards of care should be mindful of all our words and actions for we don't know whats really going on with other peoples lives.They might look happy on the outside but deep inside they are not.
DeleteMy first thought after watching this video was everyone has a story. You never know what is going on in someone else’s life. We as health care professionals and as human beings in general should never assume we know what others are feeling or thinking. We cannot apprehend what is happening in another person’s day to day life without actually sitting down to have a conversation and develop a relationship. Only then is when we can truly understand one another.
ReplyDeleteI love your post Missy. Very true and by putting in that effort it can open your eyes to a completely different viewpoint.
DeleteThis video is very honest. It represents that everyone has their struggles, even the care team members taking care of the patients. I think it is good to see it from this perspective because it is a good reminder that no matter how someone seems they are on the outside, you never really know what is going on in someone else’s life. It’s a good reminder to be empathetic toward every situation and that no time is a bad time to check on how someone else is doing, and to encourage self care.
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Agreed Mallory, empathy goes such a long way. Self care is also so important, especially in the medical field.
DeleteI agree self care is very important for each and everyone of us that give from our hearts.
DeleteThe video gives a great perspective to what everyone around you may be thinking or going through. It's a great reminder that people around you may be going through more than meets the eye. This video helps us to remember that everyone is dealing with something and we should be kind to one another.
ReplyDeleteVery good point Brittney! A little more kindness could go a long way for all of us!
DeleteI agree Brittney! Simply being kind to one another can go a long way. You never know what someone is going through.I enjoyed the video.
DeleteI think it is a reminder to not assume things of or from other people. Every single person whether it be a caregiver, a patient, or a fellow Stakeholder has a story. A story that has influenced who they are and a story that is still being written into who they will become. The chapters of the story can have huge influences onto how they learn, perceive, and respond to a given scenario and what may be nothing to one person can be overwhelming difficult for another. We all need reminding to step back and "check ourselves" before we form an opinion and stay empathetic.
ReplyDeleteHi Elizabeth,
DeleteI love how you point out how our stories influence who we are and how we perceive life. It's a good reminder to not place judgement on people. We don't know what people have been through or how it affects them, and even if we do know someone's story, everyone reacts differently to life circumstances.
Well said Elizabeth, I agree that the same situation may cause many to react differently to the same situation.
DeleteThis video reminded me for the second time that we have to be aware of others feelings and what is going on with their lives. We have to always remember that not all smiling faces have fun stories to tell and not all crying moments have sad stories to tell.
ReplyDeleteThe video makes me think about how for every way a person acts, there is a reason behind it. The patient who asks with frustration when her infusion is going to be done is not necessarily mad at me. She hasn't had good rest since she's been admitted and is anxiously awaiting being unhooked so she can hopefully get some rest. Your CRL who won't answer your texts after a certain hour isn't ignoring you to be rude. Her husband is frustrated that work keeps interrupting their time together and wants a limit set on when she answers messages. The usually caring nurse hears the call light go off with 15 minutes left on her third shift of the week and for a moment doesn't care what the patient wants because she is so tired.
ReplyDeleteWe all could do well to put ourselves in the shoes of those around us, even momentarily, in order to really empathize with where people are coming from and where they are going.
Well said Katrina and so true!
DeleteThis video provided not only the reminder to not "assume" and "to put ourselves in others shoes" but also reminded me of the good we all have in life. Meaning ...The first time you know you are expecting, or feeling one has the day before a vacation etc., I have a lot to be thankful for and I am glad we all share in this incredible journey. I feel blessed to be able to possibly make a difference and/or a smile when it is most needed.
ReplyDeleteEveryday I am reminded of how lucky I am and so thankful.
DeleteThis is the third time I've watched this video in a matter of about 2 weeks-due to training for a PRN position at another hospital. I think it is trying to tell me something! I tear up every time, and every time I relate to someone different in the video. It is a great reminder of everyone's personal struggles and life circumstances. It is a great reminder that we don't always know what's going on, but by being present and holding space for people, we can empathize with them. We have the ability to feel what they are feeling and therefore offer support.
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with Krista, just being there for our patients and being there to support them makes them feel that they are not alone in this battle .
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ReplyDeleteThis a very good video presentation of what others are going through and how healthcare providers can do a better job in treating them. It reminds us that healthcare professionals should always do a holistic approach.
ReplyDeleteTracey,
DeleteThis video also gives us an insight into the personal lives of what our patient's family members are going through. We often are so focused upon the patient, we have a tendency to focus only on our task at hand and not on all of the other people who are effected by the patient's surgery and all of the extraneous factors that are involved in our patient's direct care (family, financial burden, travel, care-givers, etc.). We must be able to see the "big picture" and be cognizant of all of the components that make up the Mother Standard of care.
This video to me represented not only our patients but people we encounter everyday in general. We need to more sensitive and aware of the uniqueness of everyone's lives around us. This is something I try to remember to keep in my mind as I am communicating with not only my patients, but my co-workers and all people I come in contact with daily. For this very reason shown here. Everyone has a story, a scenario if you will, or some life event that you couldn't possible know if you weren't told, and I think we assume sometimes how someone feels or what they are going through based on a perception. Being more sensitive to the people around us can definitely aid in whatever it is they are dealing with, good or bad. I'd like to share that video not only with healthcare workers but all who could benefit from that perspective, definitely eye opening.
ReplyDeletewell said ,Jolie . We are all unique human being that reacts differently in situations that are happening in our life .We just need to be open minded and put ourselves in that patients situation.
DeleteI totally agree Jolie, as the saying goes "Different folks have different strokes.' that's how unique everyone is. We respond to stress or problems differently. We just have to be vigilant and respect each other.
DeleteAgree 100%, Jolie.
DeleteWhat a touching and moving video. This gives such a great representation of how hard the medical process can be. Patients, nurses, doctors, and family members are all going through different things. Positives or negative its important to remember that and try to put ourselves in their shoes. Everyone handles hard times differently and its important to try and support our patients and loved ones the best we can during good and bad times.
ReplyDeleteWe all go about our business with little thought to the person standing next to us. No one is immune to sadness, grief, devastating news or even happiness. Everyone deserves and most likely needs kindness, a smile, as well as the benefit of doubt. The video demonstrates how impossible it is to really know what another person is dealing with. As healthcare professionals it reminds us to not assume but to truly look and listen. A very moving video.
ReplyDeleteGreat comment Cathy. When we are over sensitive to comments from someone, most of the time it has nothing to do with us, but what they are dealing with. How often have we been shocked to hear a patient's or co-workers story of survival and thought I never would have guessed?
DeleteThis is such a moving video. It truly shows that everyone has a journey. Everyone's heart is in a different place and is holding space differently. Being empathetic and respectful to everyone we see is sometimes difficult because we have our own emotions and griefs that we are dealing with. We all handle things in different ways, and remembering that we need to do our best to put ourselves in someone else's shoes is so important. Our job is to help others, and more often than not, they repay us and help us as well and leave footprints on our hearts!
ReplyDeleteStephanie, I appreciate you comment and agree you worded this very well. We all have our own cross to bear and should always remain respectful and empathetic as we never know what someone else may be going through.
DeleteThis is the first time I have viewed this video, and I really enjoyed it. Puts things into perspective, recognizing what others are going through. A great reminder how empathy can help empower our patients, because you never know what struggle or battle someone is facing.Thank you for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI have seen this video before and it is a reminder to all of us that we all have something going on with our lives. Everybody deserves compassion and empathy.
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ReplyDeleteThis is my first time watching the video. It was great and I enjoyed it. This video encourages us to be compassionate, loving, respectful and kind to every person we meet every single day; may it be a patient, a caretaker, a family member or a co-worker because we just don't know what that person is going through.
ReplyDeleteI agree Alex. Everyone has their own battle and us nurses can make them feel better.
DeleteI do remember this video... it really is a great reminder in the hustle and bustle of our own daily lives to take a moment to think about what others are going through. I enjoyed this video as well. It's a real tear jerker.
ReplyDeleteThis video was very touching and a great reminder that we all have our own life events and challenges that can effect us in many ways. I always try to be empathetic even when patients are at their worst because I am not walking in their shoes and could not possible understand how they may be feeling. People handle stress's of life in different ways also so we may never know what they may have going on. Great video
ReplyDeleteI agree that everyone handles stress very differently. There are those that can handle high stress without even breaking a sweat.
DeleteI have to echo the above comments that the video is a true reminder that we just don't know the whole story with what our patients and our co-workers are dealing with. I think we would be very surprised and be more accepting.
ReplyDeleteEverybody deals with stress differently . I think its important that we need not to assume things and put ourselves in the other person shoes because we each have our own battle and struggle that we deal everyday
ReplyDeleteThis video is a living testament of how each in everyone of us has a unique way of addressing our problems. People of different walks of life reacts to stress differently. We just have to be cognizant of other people's feelings, actions expressions etc. In our field, we need to acknowledge that patient/caregivers are not the only ones who's experiencing hardships. Our co workers, nurses, doctors, health care professional, support employees maybe having the same journey. We should have an open mind and be considerate.
ReplyDeleteSUCH a good video. We have no idea what is going on with people much of the time. Our jobs give us a window into our patients' lives, so we know more than most. Sometimes, though, the injured person is us. We are the ones coming in wounded.
ReplyDeleteAnd so we really, REALLY must practice showering grace, on each other, and on the community we serve. Yes, I get as frustrated as the next person. I roll my eyes, mutter under my breath, the whole thing. But I pray every day that I would be a blessing to the people we serve. They deserve no less, for we are all just part of a common humanity.
Jenifer,
DeleteExcellent observations. Nurses themselves can have their own issues and problems that they are dealing with. We also need to remember that this may be true of our coworkers. We must do our best to be understanding and work together to provide our patients with the best possible care.
Tissues were definitely needed for that one. It is a true reminder that we never really know what others are going through, whether it is good or bad. We need to be able to empathize and be compassionate with all of our patients, care givers, and co-workers, even when we find that difficulty. As mentioned in previous responses, nurses who are able to show empathy have the ability to related to their patients and develop a connection with them.
ReplyDeleteYou are correct that we must be compassionate with all, even when difficult. There are times when patients or their caregivers are being verbally aggressive when calling in and sometimes I have to take a deep breath and remember that they are going through a great deal of stress and try not to take things personally, allow them to vent, and then just try to help them with whatever is needed.
DeleteThis was the first time I watched the video, and I truly appreciate it. Such a great mind opener and a reminder that we are able to make a difference through simple act of empathy. Stepping into someone else's shoes, just for a moment, gives a new perspective. Being able to relate to patient's feelings creates a shift in our focus from self to the other human being. Essentially, we are more conscious of the needs of our patients, and we can become more supportive in their most difficult times.
ReplyDeleteIt is my first time seeing this video. You can never tell what a person is going through as wee see them in the hallways of our workplace. As nurses who see patient and come in contact with them most of the time, it would be greatly appreaciated as a person that we can show them empathy and be compassionate in providing care to them.
ReplyDeleteThis video is a powerful reminder that we all need to be kind, no matter what. None of us know what difficulty someone may be experiencing just by the look on their face or even by the sound of their voice. A little kindness or empathy can make all the world of difference to someone going through a difficult time. If someone is in a hospital, you can bet they are experiencing some type of emotional difficulty or worry, either as a patient, or because they are worried about a loved one who is a patient.
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Completely agree, we sometimes are too busy with our lives and we forget that it takes a village to make things happen and that we are not the only ones in this world. If we all just took a "time-out" and have consideration and understanding of others we would better individuals.
DeleteThis the first time I have seen this video but, yet I feel like I have seen and felt it before in my life. No matter what career I've worked this video is true. Every day before work or even at work this is the prayer I say:
ReplyDeleteLord, Put the thoughts in my head you want me to think, the words in my mouth you want me to speak, the feelings in my heart you want me to feel, and the touch in my hands you want me to touch. For myself, my family and friends, my co-workers, patients and caregivers, and for the WORLD! Amen.
After watching this video for the first time, I can see the depiction of people going through different emotions, feelings, and ways of dealing with life uncertainties. Each and everyone deals with it differently but for me the most important thing is we become sensitive to the feelings of others and we respect how they feel because sometimes it is not easy to be in whatever situation they may be. This video became an eye opener for me that there are a lot of things to be thankful about life. And as a nurse, we always see the scenes showed in video almost everyday. No matter how easy and difficult it maybe, we should always be there for each other. There is nothing wrong in showing compassion and empathy especially for the people that needs us the most because we never know when the time comes when are the one in need of others.
DeleteWell said Richie. We don't know where or when we might find ourselves in one of these situations. I love that we work at hospital that allows such openness.
DeleteThis is the first time I saw this video and it really tells quite a story! As a care taker, we cannot forget to look beyond the physical assessments but also remember that we must also be emotionally present for not only each patient but also their families as well. This makes a huge impact on their time with us, especially with most being so far away from the familiarity of their homes. It also brings to light that each coworker has their own dynamic of personal things going on that we can be a support team for. And of coarse don't forget, we have to take care of ourselves in order to be 100% present for our patients.
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DeleteThank you for bringing up an excellent point that we, as nurses, must also remember to take care of ourselves. I feel it is also important to remember that everyone has their own story and we do not always know or see the whole picture, appearances can be deceiving.
This is so important for caregiver to remember. If we don't take care of ourselves we don't have anything to give to others. Self care it's hard to learn, but important to obtain.
DeleteLike many others, I have seen this video several times and every time I watch it I feel an overwhelming number of emotions. On some level, I feel a personal connection to this video and at the same time I have heartfelt feelings of empathy and sadness for others. I also feel proud to be a nurse and proud to provide nursing care, support, and compassion. This video has a strong message, that everyone is dealing with something and everyone has their own story. As nurses, one of the most important factors of nursing care is trust, trust between the nurse and the patient. When nurses establish a personal connection with their patients it creates the ultimate nursing environment. In order to make a personal connection with patients and their family members, nurses must be able to empathize and listen to their patient’s needs and concerns. They remember the little details and truly care about their patients. Nurses must take the time to listen and understand where they are coming from. Everything is not always as it seems. Sometimes we need to put ourselves into our patients’ shoes and see things from their point of view. This video strongly reminds me of CTCA’s Mother Standard of Care.
ReplyDeleteemphathy- is putting yourself in another's shoes. But i was in that "another's shoes" when i was told by the doctor that my husband got prostate Ca. As a nurse, i told myself to remain calm, think rationally. As a caregiver, i asked myself how am i going to get past this? So as a nurse, i wanted to get second opinion and brought him to our hosp. where the experts are. he got radiation therapy and he's in remission now. As a caregiver, i had to have gallons and gallons of patience to deal with the day to day ordeals. I had to deal with the side effects of radiation therapy. Fatigue was the number one. Even tho' he takes naps in the afternoon, he still feels tired. Loss of appetite- even before he got sick, he eats like a bird. I tried to feed him every 2 hours with small meals and supplemented with boost and ensure. Very moody-gets irritated with little things, seems depressed and quiet most of the times. It seems that it's never ending.That's the life of a caregiver- take each day as it comes.
ReplyDeleteI bet being on the other side has given you a better insight of what a CG goes through and now you have personal experience to share with CG here and give them hope that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Very happy to hear that your husband is in remission!
DeleteJennifer, I have thought of you and your husband often. I am truly happy to hear that hear he is in remission. Thank you for sharing your story with all of us
DeleteThe video is a good reminder that one never knows what someone else is going through in their life. Stress can manifest in many ways, it can come out in many forms such as anger, sadness, crying, high anxiety and others. As a provider we should have empathy and compassion for patients, caregivers and fellow stakeholders. Sometimes just a kind word, a smile or an embrace is all that is needed to make someone else feel better.
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DeleteI enjoyed this video because it is a true depiction of everyday people experiencing everyday situations and you wouldn't even know by their demeanor. This video truly makes me realize that not only as a nurse but as an individual we need to be empathetic of others. I believe that we chose to be nurses because empathy is an intrinsic characteristic that we all share. Kindness goes a long way!
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DeleteIt really is a true depiction of how we go through life not knowing what someone just found out, or is worried about. Empathy is such a beautiful thing, and is needed by every one at different times in their lives. It is important to always have that skill and utilize it on a daily basis, and show grace to others who may not be very respectful to us as you are not walking in their shoes.
Brenda Chiappetta
Many times over the last several years I have felt sorry for myself, learned to be an advocate, and allowed me to walk a minute in a "patients" shoes. I truly believe this path has allowed me to step aside from my path and help guide a patient on theirs. Most occasions have brought me peace and gratitude that the patient has "included" me in their journey, I would be lying if other times I have not been horrified feeling as if I was looking in a mirror. I truly believe the best nurses are the ones wh truly have empathy. Though difficult to watch this video reminds us to stop and really pay attention to small clues that others may have so much more on the plates. KA
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DeleteI have felt sorry for myself at times as well. When I hear our patients stories, I realize my problems are minuscule compared to what our patients are going through. I am actually greatful that I have the problems that I have and not their problems.
A little bit of empathy goes a long way.
Brenda Chiappetta
This was the first time I saw this video. It is true, you never know what someone else is feeling or going through when you meet them. This is a very good reminder for all of us to have an open mind / open heart when you have an interaction with a patient or coworkers.
ReplyDeleteIt’s actually a wonderful reminder for just daily life. So many people do not know what true empathy is today. I know when people are angry with me it’s usually because they’re scared.
This was the first time I ever saw this video. It is very well done, and should be something that everyone should be required to view weekly as a reminder to always show grace to one another because you never know what someone else is going through.
ReplyDeleteIt is also a reminder to me, along with seeing the patients that I see on a daily basis that whatever I may be going through, it is very small compared to what my patients are going through. I heard the saying before...don't sweat the small stuff...and in the scheme of things...it's ALL small stuff compared to what others are going through. Be thankful for all you have, and all you don't have, and ALWAYS give grace because you just never know!
Brenda Chiappetta
Brenda,
DeleteI agree with you regarding your comment about don’t sweat the small stuff. If you are relatively healthy, you are definitely a winner! Absolutely no one knows what goes on the life of a cancer patient: children to worry about, spouses needing added support, financial troubles, etc. Our “issues” could be nothing compared to the life threatening challenges faced by others.
Hortensia A.
First time seeing this video. Definitely puts one’s problems in a more profound perspective. We see many means of life up and down the hallways, but only each and every one of those souls know how “heavy or light” the burdens and worries of life can get.
ReplyDeleteNo one gets to understand the difficulties of dealing with cancer or other terminal illness until you or a loved one have walked down that path. You may see a smile, you may see someone cry, but in the end no one can get the pains and sorrows to become any less painful than knowing that today may be the last day you may see that smile or that tear.
Hortensia Aiello
Heart-wrenching video, should be played before classroom event to remind us.
ReplyDeleteAgree with you Eve. Or we could show this to our bedside nurses. and all department. To let them realize how patients, caregivers or even staff who are in different situation.
DeleteThis is my first time to see the video. I can relay my experienced from last week. I meet a new patient who has some emotional uncontrolled anger and no matter what reason you can describe to this patient, you still have to understand why they act and feel this way. it could be from the medication that they take or how desperate they are to get well. to continue life as long as they can.
ReplyDeleteBy just looking at this patient with out conversations, you would not know what's life ahead of them.
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DeleteWe experience a lot of this in the field of oncology. Many patients are angry at what a loved one or themselves are experiencing. It's not personal, we just happen to be there when it all unfolded. It's a cry for help! Sometimes all we can do is be present without uttering a single word.
Jessica Mendez
So true Jessica. Being present is often enough and might be the best thing we can do.
DeleteJessica Mendez-I recall seeing this video once before. The emotions that surfaced then were the same that I experienced today. It is very easy to allow others actions or lack thereof to influence the way you think, act, and/or feel. Many times we don't know or simply can't explain why someone has taken a specific course of action. All we know is what has occurred or has been experienced. Because we don't know much, if anything at all, it is important to approach the day and everyone with an open mind and heart. We all can make a difference by simply smiling-it's contagious! The video reminded me to refrain from passing judgment, criticizing, and/or passing negativity, as there are always others whose trials and tribulations might be worse than ours.
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This is the first time I saw this video and it took me awhile to stop crying. After I finally did, I thought long and hard about my interactions with patients and the people I work with. I've heard the statement "be kinder than you need to be, you never know what people are dealing with". This video brings that point home. The events in our lives have a huge impact on how we face the world and how interact with each other. We can't fully know what others are dealing with and how it affects their ability to comprehend things or interact with us. Good reminder to be charitable, cut each other some slack and be kind in all our interactions.
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ReplyDeletethis is the first time I saw this video and i was definitely reaching for tissues. I always remind my kids to put themselves in others' shoes and treat others as they would like to be treated because you never know what they are going through. This video helps validate that point. As children we wear our hearts on our sleeves and everyone knows just how were feeling (for the most part) but as adults we've learned to protect ourselves and others by wearing a "mask" to hide our true feelings and the struggle we are going through. It's important to keep in mind that everyone is constantly dealing with something or another, so a little understanding and kindness goes a long way.
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DeleteGreat point Hanzel, I couldn't help while reading your blog, of the movie "Wonder" with Julia Roberts. I took my 7 year old daughter, Zoe, and my 11 year old nephew, Alex, to the movie. I appreciated the movie greatly because it pointed out that our perception of others is often skewed- that there are deeper, unseen processes that might be contributing to others' behaviors. If we could all take a moment of consideration of others, instead of thinking how the person is making us feel, this world would be completely different. It should never be about us, but about the one who is in front of us. This is quite different than the popular belief that resonates with today's society. Reason for this dilemma is that we are preoccupied with so many distractions (that's exactly what they are-distractions), that we ignore the most important detail- each other. God bless you all.
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ReplyDeleteHealth, relationships, emotions, finances and so many other factors that go into what people are experiencing. We can imagine what others might be experiencing, but only the one going through the experience/journey can truly know what it feels like. But by trying to feel what others might be experiencing, our level of care for others increases. Thanks.
Great reminder! It is good to have a check every once in a while that there is often times much more going on under the surface. It is easy to be reactive in situations and make assumptions about people's behavior. In healthcare (and especially in a specialty like cancer) we are seeing people on one of the worst days of their life. I went into Nursing because I want to help others in a compassionate and caring way. Many times though, I get caught up in the negativity and stress of the job, forgetting what is most important. I like reminders like this to help re-focus on what I am here for.
ReplyDeleteJust by watching their gestures and facial expressions, we could already foresee the expressions of their inner feelings of hopelessness, frustrations, anger, resignation, feeling of relief, restlessness, anxiety, stress, and so forth... There is just a lot of feelings portrayal in the scene, I could just imagine how distressing it is to carry these emotions day to day in their lives. As forefront caregivers of them, we should be proactive in meeting these challenges. Walking in their shoes would help us better understand their emotions and be more compassionate and experience that feeling of treating them like they were our own family.
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